Welcome to another episode of the Shit Cis People Say Alphabet! Today:
Q is for ‘queen, drag’
The persistence with which cis society in general continues to conflate trans women with drag queens is infuriating. But also admittedly complicated. I am not even going to attempt a thorough cover of this topic. The purpose of having this post in this series is really just to say: trans women are not drag queens, (unless they are performing as such in a drag show.)
“Trans woman” and “drag queen” are entirely different concepts.
Trans women are women whose parents/guardians thought they were boys when they were born, and usually for quite a long time after that.
Drag queens are people who have developed a flamboyant lady persona for the purposes of (usually comedic) theatrical shows. The overwhelming majority of drag queens are cisgender men (so, neither trans, nor women!) And in fact, drag shows are often misogynistic, anti-femme, and/or trans-antagonistic, although I don’t think they are inherently any of those things.
The vast majority of drag queens are not trans women. And the vast majority of trans women are not drag queens. Stop conflating these two, very different, categories.